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Through their own stories – told by the artists themselves.
Everybody let’s give a warm welcome to Gothley Crue, young black NYC adult creative & photographer, being featured on the DGAF Blog with some thoughts he shared this past week. You’ve seen his pictures, possibly shared one of his Ghostface mask shot from his Halloween posts. If not, please check his work out before proceeding. A lot of his reflections give a lot to think about. He’s been around a while, but the time to go back has come – go within oneself and recognize the necessary facts to share some of his lived experiences with the pandemic-era romance/dating/sex with every other living loving human beings.
What follows is a post and a compilation of images the artist did himself.
dating sex workers, milfs and poly folk from 2018-2021 RIP (by GOTHLEYCRUE)
I’ve dated single mom milfs and poly folks for 3 years now and I don’t know what to say or how to feel. I can just say that its been a journey. I’m just too selfish to date someone with many children and i’m too stingy to share my women at this point. I can be shamed for this but can I really be? when it comes to a BD I don’t wanna deal with any of those niggas but if I do that then i will have to sadly. I I date a poly woman I gotta worry about other partners and if one hurts her I gotta hold her while she cries? Like bro i’m ya main dude and now you’re heartbroken when i’m still here? Its a lifestyle that’s not for the weak. That’s why being open/poly is hard as fuck. My friends seem to manage but women have told me why they do it.
They do it cause they cant find their person so they gave up or they cant risk heartbreak again so they have many partners to fall back on. That to me makes perfect sense cause I cant handle heartbreaks my damn self. After my first one in 2015 my guard will forever be up. Imma tell ya’ll why my guard will be even higher when dating these types of women. Dating a mom is hard and the kids matter more than you will ever plus the BDs be in the way. Dating a sex worker is hard cause you gotta share or risk being judged on top of trying to get over her after ya’ll split but you gotta see her fuck many people online. Dating a poly person is hard cause you may be her main partner but you still gotta share her. All this shit is taboo to me but I wont judge anyone who is into this bizarre lifestyle. in 2018 is when online sex work really took of especially saying back page got shut down. In 2020 is when EVERYONE and their mother started doing it to make money during the pandemic. I know most moms don’t think about it but their kids may find their past online in the future and them boom. I hope ya’ll can explain why and I hope they can process your reasons well. If any man found their mom getting destroyed online it can lead to a very dark road. My step mom was a hall or fame adult actress back then but she will tell my step sister when the time is right. I love sex, mom bods and being open but I don’t know if i’m fully cut out for this lifestyle but I can honesty say that I tried. My photography is NSFW so I love shooting SW and sex workers are healthy so I trust them more than a regular girl. I hope everyone can read this and understand what i’m tryna say. There and pros and cons to everything. Also on tinder all I find now is these types of women so a girl saying she doesn’t do any of this super rare. I hope dating for me goes well 2022 and on. Wish me luck. Farewell my friends.
